Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Make Women Laugh & The Art Of Conversation With Women

1.Only Ask the Simple Things

On an initial conversation, you don't want to get into details about how long it took your knee to heal from the cut you got while playing near a septic tank at the age of six. Even that sentence had too much information in it as it is! Keep your questions simple and basic and go from there. There will be plenty of time for childhood mishaps and embarrassing parent stories later on.

2.Stay Funny, Nothing Serious

The first few questions should be treated like research. You're slowly trying to understand what she finds amusing. When you have a grasp of what will make her laugh, start cracking jokes. Keep it funny. Never talk about big issues like money, politics, religion, and the like during your first few conversations. Save big topics like that for your tenth date... and even then you can put it off a bit longer!

3.Share a Special Story

After you have some momentum going, share a special story. Talk about the time you dove the great barrier reef, and how great white sharks are magnificent creatures. This makes you unique, and shows her that you probably have more interesting things to talk about, and that she can probably learn a lot from talking to you. Women love that! Just make sure the story is true!

4.Get Her Opinion

This is a tricky one. It was just stated in #2 that you shouldn't get into big conversations till later. When most people ask for opinions, the usually go for big issues. Keep it simple or in tune to pop culture. Ask something like, "What do you think about all the gossip in Hollywood? Is it right for the paparazzi to terrorize famous people the way they do?" It's a seemingly harmless question, but it will actually tell you a lot about her personality.

5.Assess

Wrap things up with a line like "I enjoyed talking to you, there's something so comforting in it." This line is laced with a compliment and the message that you've just had a good conversation. When you say something like this, most people will agree, even if they may not have thought it was a particularly good conversation to begin with. Now that you've put it in their head that it was indeed a good conversation, you'll have a much easier time arranging to meet up for another one!


Learn How To Make Women Laugh


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